Comments on: Self Love and Healthy Boundaries with Terri Cole

By: Soph

Soph — Mon, 07 Jan 2019 15:04:52 +0000

This morning I needed to watch this again. We should really be able to do this more often, daily even. Thank you for the weekly reminders that we are worthy of love and time.

By: Klaudia

Klaudia — Sun, 08 Jul 2018 15:42:47 +0000

I absolutely needed this, thank you for the video!

By: MaryAnn Radford

MaryAnn Radford — Sat, 09 Jun 2018 17:03:56 +0000

Very eye opening, I needed this today

By: Jordy

Jordy — Mon, 04 Jun 2018 16:26:22 +0000

Loved this casual chat, and the other one as well. Keep up the great content!

By: Jennifer

Jennifer — Sat, 02 Jun 2018 22:10:52 +0000

I like how clarifying this message is for us women. I never thought about it like this before but it makes so much sense. I feel “obligated” to take care of everyone and I often feel “shame” or “guilt” when I place boundaries and take care of myself. I think it’s true that society teaches women that we are only good if we place everyone else’s need above our own. I couldn’t understand why I felt exactly I felt bad everytime I stood up for myself or said “no” and this answered it perfectly. It’s because on a subconscious level, I feel a responsibility for everyone around me. That’s false. I am not responsbility for those around me. I am not responsible for anyone but myself. I’m happy to help. But I should not feel any negative emotions for placing my needs over another’s. I’m not talking about being selfish. I’m talking about self care.

By: Patry

Patry — Sat, 02 Jun 2018 19:40:33 +0000

Hi Gen.
Thank you very much for share this conversation. It makes me think a lot about everything I do and I discover that I never think about my own needs and that I must do it to have a healthy relationships with others and with myself.
I’m really thankful for your post. Thank you very very much. It maybe makes me work hardest and help me keep fighting against my anxiety, Posttraumatic Stress disorder and my depression.
So… Thanks for this sunshine words.
#Love

By: Elena

Elena — Sat, 02 Jun 2018 18:36:59 +0000

I hit my wall when I was diagnosed with Lupus last year. Being the yes and people pleaser was making me worse. I crave genuine friendship But never really have ever had it. I just want to be myself whoever that is and be accepted.

By: Rebecca

Rebecca — Sat, 02 Jun 2018 18:34:25 +0000

Thank you so very much for this video. I found it to be pretty informative and super helpful to start getting in the right direction for taking care of ME!! I’m super duper guilty of trying everything in my power to make everyone and everything around me perfect and happy. I never stopped to think about myself because I always felt as if it was extremely selfish of me to do so (which in turn feeds into depression!). It’s a vicious cycle that needs to be broken somehow and your blog is pointing me and I’m sure many others in the right direction…for that I thank you ?. Keep it up beautiful, you’re doing fantastic!! ?

By: Cindy

Cindy — Sat, 02 Jun 2018 16:16:10 +0000

Nice video! Will check out Terri’s course soon if I can afford it. Sounds like she has some very useful information.

By: Charlotte Paul

Charlotte Paul — Sat, 02 Jun 2018 15:51:17 +0000

Thank you so much for bringing this! up! RIiight now I am in a position where I have to deal with the putfall of putting myself too much in the backgrpund for too long! Though being what others call me rather intelligent, vastly educated and analytic concernig others in my strive to be a good mom-wife-worker I lost focus of my desires and needs as far as nearly losing myself! But this is my forte, my speciality, my strenth and my support: being myself!
So thanks for the advice, it helps a lot of taking the reigns back!